That’s why … bad moments give you the sweet nectar of the the good ones…

Sabrine Nomane
3 min readApr 18, 2021

Hi everyone … i want to share with you an event happened in my life and still until now shows its result . A hard memory … but a constructive one which make me today that person ; serious, determine girl but specially that person who knows very well what he wants …

I’m taking you back to my bachelor degree’s year , it was difficult year, during it I worked very hard. I was one of the best students and I was able to reach the highest ranks.
My story began just before my last exam to take the first step to achieving my dream.
But suddenly my mother had seriously fell ill that kept her in bed.
Her situation was so critical that the first thing I do in the morning is to ask the doctors about my mother if she is still alive or not…

I was the only girl in my family , I should take care of everyone my mother and my family … It was difficult. I felt lonely, afraid, I did not know how to behave well and what to do in such hard situation … it was a huge mess…

I lived in this condition for 3 months, without knowing the meaning of the rest …

Until one day , i visit my mother in hospital , i was sad , disappointment and my eyes were full of tears. After looking to my face and observe my acts , my mother asked me to give her a hug…
“_what’s wrong with you sweet-heart, are you upset about something?”

“_ yes mom, i want to ask you , how could you manage all the family’s activities , how did you took care about us all these years added to your work? i really can’t manage anything …!!.

My mother was so quiet , looked at me in my eyes, smiled and answered with all confidence :

_”Like an orchestra conductor…”
_”What ?… my mother i did not understand you !!”
_”What does an orchestra conductor do my dear ?… he runs a group of musicians without moving from his place , he keeps an orchestra organized, focus on the rhythm, make decision and order it by moving his hands… Just do the same.”

I was confused if my mother was kidding me or she was serious !!

but you know what … Mom never say something wrong … Yes !! those words had a magical effect in my life .

I remember that i went back to home , and began my new method to manage everything in my life as an orchestra conductor… it wasn’t that easy but i had a huge energy and motivation to make my life change.

I’m now Sabrine , or “Brain” as my friend love to call me, a very ambitious engineer , addicted to try new things ; let’s say making changes in my life become my cup of tea . And that because this bad event taught me how to manage many fields together in onetime, how to hit the right notes and make my life a sweet symphony.

Thank you Mom …

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